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It is also important when taking your loved one out for necessary outings to not only carry the bag of important items discussed in the last post, but also to avoid infection.  Most illnesses are spread hand to mouth, so it is important to utilize frequent hand washing, but also to avoid contaminated surfaces.  These would be surfaces such as door handles, water fountain handles, counter tops, and cash.  When you are unable to wash hands, utilize hand sanitizer, but don't use sanitizer as a replacement for hand washing if  you can.  +Lysol Disinfectant Spray now makes a pocket size can that can be carried with you.  Also, be cautious with restaurants, as food born illness is also a concern.

Loved ones and visitors need to use infection control practices when coming to visit as well.  Take off shoes at the door, wash hands, and avoid too much physical contact.  If anyone has a cold or infection, they need to understand that it is best for them to stay home and that it isn't personal.  Cook all food thoroughly and pay attention to food temperatures.  Keep the refrigerator cleaned out of excessive leftovers.

Many people want to know what they can do for you and your family during the difficult times of cancer treatment.  Be honest with them.  They would not ask if they did not want to help.  Often the family caregiver is missing work to take care of the sick one, gas back and forth to the doctor adds up, parking fees in the hospital garage are killer, and the list goes on.  Sometimes the best thing someone can give you is a roll of quarters, a gift certificate to +Walmart , or some +Redbox rentals.  Other times, having someone change your ac filter before you return from the hospital or clean your bathroom is what you really need.  Just be honest with your needs.  If someone can do it they will and if they can't they will tell you.  It isn't shameful to need help and support.